From Loneliness to Reinvention: My Midlife Reboot at 50
"Are you heading out again?" I questioned Rob, who was once more packing for a getaway with his friends, this being his third such excursion in just one month. Just for a limited time. I could feel his joy at being free from constraints. While he planned to hit the slopes for some skiing, I stayed behind to look after the dogs and have solitary "girl dinners." It bothered me that I wasn't embarking on exciting escapades like before. I couldn't allow myself to explore my interests, largely due to not knowing where to start. The question remained: how does one discover new pursuits once their children leave the nest? In 2018, when I hit 50, I found myself grappling with depression and completely out of touch with any positive feelings about my physical self. Post-open heart surgery recovery, facing an impending menopause, and experiencing a loss of direction added to my struggles. Over the years, I'd prioritized my husband Rob and our combined ...